"The energy is hidden where the mind won't go."

"The broken heart stands between the self and the experience."

"Being with the hurt out of choicelessness opens a perceptive doorway."

"Seeing the helper as a device of avoidance - one discovers a level of helplessness."

"The loss of the love sends you to a purgatorial place within yourself. The loss did not cause the hurt, it reveals it. That hurt is where humanity is hiding, and that hurt is also where the individual is held. The mystery is on the other side of the hurt. The body and brain will resist this experience, it’s the true death experience. In effect, the mystery is watching you attempt to approach it. There is no way to the mystery through any approach or device, which are all attempts to run from the deep hurt, and give it some sense. When one sees the limitations of all attempts, one must be with the hurt. It’s in the hurt that the energy is hiding… in plain sight. " -- April 19, 2008